tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post7232641439418465925..comments2023-06-15T07:30:56.979-07:00Comments on Alex's Weblog: Saving a friendship by YELLINGAlexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13601555839068658180noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-61006187081218820292011-05-29T02:40:35.064-07:002011-05-29T02:40:35.064-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03227326421156941404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-37808122001927628872007-09-11T11:56:00.000-07:002007-09-11T11:56:00.000-07:00yun: I see.. If you talked and things still can't ...<B>yun</B>: I see.. If you talked and things still can't be resolved, that's probably not much you can do about it.. When the values of two people are too different, it's tough to be friends I think..Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13601555839068658180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-82172577365106712992007-09-11T11:18:00.000-07:002007-09-11T11:18:00.000-07:00umm... in my cases, I think they had something hol...umm... in my cases, I think they had something holding against me. Some I don't think what it was (I had an idea but not sure); some I know, and we had talked. But things were not being resolved.ah-yunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11879379535792421382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-80042143157627409742007-09-11T09:50:00.000-07:002007-09-11T09:50:00.000-07:00yun: Yeah having the confidence to apologize isn't...<B>yun</B>: Yeah having the confidence to apologize isn't easy to do so I value and respect my HS friend very much.<BR/><BR/>Perhaps sometimes people stop talking to their friends not because they're angry with them but they have new directions in life. Even in that case, I still think that it's nice to at least say hi once in a while so that their friends won't misunderstand..Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13601555839068658180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-40382046319810574832007-09-10T22:51:00.000-07:002007-09-10T22:51:00.000-07:00I can resonate with your HS friend. I used to yell...I can resonate with your HS friend. I used to yell at my mom for cleaning my room (I actually shared a room w/ my sister). I need "privacy." But I'm glad that your friend called you back and apologized. That wasn't easy to do.<BR/><BR/>I had few good friends stopped talking to me, during my life... HS, college, after college. Sometimes I started to think, "Is it me?! Am I really that bad?!" It's devastating. But I have learned to cope with it. Some people just aren't good with confrontation and honesty.<BR/><BR/>(Hey look! Time to go to sleep!!!)ah-yunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11879379535792421382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-12873890136244697322007-09-10T13:55:00.000-07:002007-09-10T13:55:00.000-07:00hanamaru: Yes, what you said is the message I want...<B>hanamaru</B>: Yes, what you said is the message I want to carry out from this post.<BR/><BR/>The sad truth is that people lose this kind of confidence as they grow up. What will a kid do when another kid grabs his toy? He probably will cry or fight with that kid to get it back.<BR/><BR/>Adults are not permitted to be that "childish", so they either hide their angers or talk behind the back of the offender, silently and gradually ending the relationship while the offender never intended hurting him in the first place...<BR/><BR/>Don't let this happens to you friends.. :)Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13601555839068658180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36163290.post-66493423939686671642007-09-10T12:47:00.000-07:002007-09-10T12:47:00.000-07:00People often let go of their anger on someone who ...People often let go of their anger on someone who they are close with than the normal friends.<BR/><BR/>I preferred the honest way when dealing with friendship. I always hope that friends i care about tell me right to my face what i have done wrong or what they don't like about me so that i won't do the same thing next time, or to give me a chance to explain the situation in order to maintain the relationship, than to talk behind my back and took my chances to come clean.HanaMaruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15305788300945748210noreply@blogger.com